{"id":76662,"date":"2026-07-10T08:39:42","date_gmt":"2026-07-10T15:39:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nalandabodhi.org\/?p=76662"},"modified":"2026-07-10T08:39:43","modified_gmt":"2026-07-10T15:39:43","slug":"the-upaya-of-short-retreats","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nalandabodhi.org\/nl\/2026\/07\/10\/the-upaya-of-short-retreats\/","title":{"rendered":"The Upaya of Short Retreats"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"76662\" class=\"elementor elementor-76662\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-section-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section data-particle_enable=\"false\" data-particle-mobile-disabled=\"false\" class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-10ea4f89 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"10ea4f89\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-row\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2b2f4cc2\" data-id=\"2b2f4cc2\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1911e89 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1911e89\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">The Upaya of Short Retreats<\/h1>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-939116d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"939116d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt 72pt;text-align: left\"><em>The dharma teachings usually say that solitude is actually positive for you. Because it\u2019s a time to connect more deeply with ourselves. It\u2019s an opportunity for what we call meditation, for working with our mind both physically and mentally. Solitude can rejuvenate your mind and recharge it.<\/em><\/p><p style=\"text-align: right\">- <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dpr.info\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Dzogchen Ponlop Rinpoche<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a69278f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a69278f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p>As Rinpoche says, personal retreats can be deeply nourishing. They can help us deepen our practice, improve our understanding of the Buddhist teachings, clarify any questions or doubts, and (re)connect with our own path. When we consider personal retreat practice, many of us think of long periods in retreat centers, cabins, or monasteries.<\/p><p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lionsroar.com\/long-meditation-retreat-advice\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Long retreats<\/a> are a precious opportunity to dive really deeply into practice, and if you have the opportunity to spend weeks or months in retreat, by all means do it. But sometimes life does not allow that. We may have restrictions due to work, family obligations, or financial constraints. That can lead us to not doing any retreat at all.<\/p><p>Recently, after I had just finished another three-day solitary retreat, a friend asked what I get out of doing short retreats. We ended up having an inspiring discussion around why it does not always have to be a long retreat or nothing. Since I have found that doing short retreats can be extremely beneficial, I wanted to share some of my experience.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-673eda5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"673eda5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">The Quiet Depth of Short Retreats<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-22a2b33 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"22a2b33\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p>I have found that even a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lionsroar.com\/the-most-important-work-you-can-do\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">short retreat<\/a>\u2014a long weekend, three nights away\u2014can be surprisingly profound. By the end of my last three-day retreat, I felt as though I had been away for two weeks. In some ways, I get more out of short retreats than longer retreats. Something settles deeply and naturally.<\/p><p>Setting an intention before a retreat is important. Of course, that will include connecting with the heart of bodhicitta and the wish to benefit others. I have also found it helpful to spend some time getting clear about what I want to focus on during the retreat.<\/p><p>Do I have doubt in a particular area of the path? Is there some place where I do not feel fully connected? What have I neglected for a while? Is there a particular topic I would like to study or go deeper into? Which practice(s) will be of most benefit during this time?<\/p><p>Short retreats can create enough quiet that we can finally hear what has already been there beneath the daily noise for a while. I am often surprised by what comes up.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-db5c246 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"db5c246\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Choosing Duration and Location<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ec1e251 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ec1e251\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt 72pt;text-align: left\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Solitude is not the absence of company, but the absence of distraction.<\/span><\/i><\/p><p style=\"text-align: right\">\u2014 Anonymous<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-27699c3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"27699c3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p>Three nights, for me, seems to be a sweet spot. One or two nights often feel too brief to fully arrive and settle. Three nights allow enough time for the mind to begin slowing down and softening into practice.<\/p><p>One thing I strongly recommend: Avoid doing retreat at home.<\/p><p>Home may seem convenient, especially for a short retreat, and it does save money. But home is often filled with invisible hooks that pull at our attention: unfinished tasks, daily habits, pets, , laundry, books to be read, the subtle momentum of our daily identity. My mind can find many distractions just by being in the environment of my home.<\/p><p>For short retreats, I like to find a place one or two hours away\u2014close enough that travel does not consume too much time, yet far enough that my mind and body feel like we have entered different territory.<\/p><p>Cabins in nature are wonderful for this. Simple rented rooms, retreat centers, or even a friend\u2019s empty apartment can work beautifully. The important thing seems to be separation from our ordinary routines.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2ef27a2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2ef27a2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Emptying the Mind<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-63f7149 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"63f7149\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt 72pt;text-align: left\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Know this life to be like a dream. See the mind\u2019s unborn nature. Aspire to be of benefit to others.<\/span><\/i><\/p><p style=\"text-align: right\">- <a href=\"https:\/\/ktgrinpoche.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Khenpo Ts\u00fcltrim Gyamtso Rinpoche<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f13047f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f13047f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p>Before leaving for the retreat, I try to finish any open projects. If something cannot be completed, I write a reminder for when I come back. A simple to-do list for later can be surprisingly liberating. Once tasks are written down, my mind no longer needs to keep rehearsing them.<\/p><p>Of course, during retreat itself, there should be no internet, computer, or phone use\u2014unless, for example, you are participating in an online feast. If you have family responsibilities or other circumstances that require you to remain reachable for emergencies even during retreat, I recommend choosing only one channel\u2014perhaps text messages\u2014and checking it only once a day. The rest of the time, place the phone entirely out of sight. I have noticed that my mind gets pulled away if the phone is in the same room, even if it is muted. If you need a clock during retreat, bring one rather than using your phone.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-17fc250 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"17fc250\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Slow Transitions In and Out<\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-11ecc05 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"11ecc05\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt 72pt;text-align: left\">Clarity and decisiveness come from the willingness to slow down, to listen to and look at what&#8217;s happening.<\/p><p style=\"text-align: right\">- <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shambhala.com\/pema-chodron\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Pema Ch\u00f6dr\u00f6n<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b733ca4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b733ca4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p>We can extend retreat and slow our mind even before we arrive at our retreat destination.<br \/>Whenever possible, I avoid highways and take smaller roads instead. I slow down intentionally. Sometimes I stop somewhere beautiful along the way and simply sit quietly for a few minutes. This gradual transition helps me unwind before formal practice even starts.<\/p><p>And when retreat ends, I try to do the same thing in reverse. Instead of rushing immediately back into speed and noise, I allow space and time to return to my daily life. I often intentionally choose a road back home that I have not driven before and may stop at a local shop or restaurant and enjoy the newness and freshness of that experience.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-dc8fb0d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"dc8fb0d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Do I Need a Schedule?<\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3bda45b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3bda45b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p>Nobody is going to check what you do, but as Dzogchen Ponlop Rinpoche recommends and as we experience in <a href=\"https:\/\/nalandabodhi.org\/nl\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Nalandabodhi<\/a> retreats, a schedule will be helpful. Ideally, I plan for four sessions a day and stick to it. Try not to become too loose and think it does not matter if you move things around or start the afternoon session an hour later. I have found that fussing with the schedule can negatively affect the flow and intensity of the retreat. It is good to remember that traditions of scheduling four sessions a day, for example, exist for a reason. We will benefit if we follow these guidelines.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d234848 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d234848\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Use All the Time \n<\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cc6d4f5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"cc6d4f5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt 72pt;text-align: left\">The whole world and its inhabitants are impermanent.<br \/>In particular, the life of beings is like a bubble.<br \/>Death comes without warning, this body will be a corpse.<br \/>At that time, the dharma will be my only help. I must practice it with exertion.<\/p><p style=\"text-align: right\">- <a href=\"https:\/\/nalandabodhi.org\/nl\/2020\/10\/09\/four-reminders-impermanence\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Four Reminders<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9d4b067 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9d4b067\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p>Besides four practice sessions a day, there is so much time, even in a short treat, to read, study, contemplate, write, or go for a walk outside. The hours seem to stretch, and I have noticed many times how long the days in retreat feel.<\/p><p>Between meditation sessions, I often journal or reflect quietly on the themes I brought into retreat. Sometimes I take a contemplative walk in nature. Other times I simply sit outside with a question and allow it to deepen on its own. Questions that feel tangled in ordinary life sometimes begin to open naturally in the spaciousness of retreat.<\/p><p>I keep meals intentionally simple. Retreats have taught me to appreciate the pure taste of uncomplicated food.<\/p><p>Don\u2019t forget the lineage and blessings! Connecting with the <a href=\"https:\/\/kagyuoffice.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">lineage<\/a> outside the meditation sessions helps to blend my meditation practice and my mundane mind more and more. I sing dharma songs, recall the lineage while doing a walking meditation, or bring moments of devotion into my ordinary activities.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d143fb7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d143fb7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Working with Our Habits<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6a27653 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6a27653\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt 72pt;text-align: left\">When emotions come up, <em><a href=\"https:\/\/emotionalrescue.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/Emotional-Rescue-Dzogchen-Ponlop-Interview-QA.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">mind the gap<\/a><\/em>. First feel them, then hold still without reacting, and then look\u2014look at the gap. <\/p><p style=\"text-align: right\">- <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dpr.info\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Dzogchen Ponlop Rinpoche<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1c60d9b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1c60d9b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p>Retreats are a wonderful opportunity to work with any habits, and I sometimes set the intention to work with specific ones. Like tuning the strings of a guitar, we should try for the right balance\u2014neither two strict nor too loose is the ideal way. If you\u2019re like me and sometimes push or try too hard, you might want to loosen up and focus on relaxing more. If you are more on the lazy side, you may want to consider how to perk up a bit.<\/p><p>Figuring out how to work with our habits is part of the process. For example, many of us have a small addiction to coffee or sweets. During retreat, you could choose to go without coffee or sweets (or whatever you\u2019re drawn to), see how your mind reacts, and work with whatever craving arises. Or, you could intentionally bring coffee and sweets with the intention of paying close attention to the arising, abiding, and ceasing of your cravings when you consume them\u2014or when you don\u2019t. I have found both approaches to be quite insightful and even transformative.<\/p><p>The good thing is\u2014there is no one judging you. It is simply about being honest with yourself.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3f236b9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3f236b9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Returning to Daily Life<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-de93c6b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"de93c6b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p>After the slow drive home, once back in ordinary, daily life, how can I carry some of the retreat energy and insights with me?<\/p><p><a href=\"https:\/\/nalandabodhi.org\/nl\/2021\/10\/08\/the-four-immeasurables-compassion\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Can I offer more presence to a friend, a parent, a stranger?<\/a> Can I bring a little more patience into conversation? Can I listen more carefully? Can I bring my life and the dharma into closer integration?<\/p><p>Perhaps there is one small habit we have released, or one small habit we can carry forward. A pause before reacting to an email. A moment of awareness while making tea. A sincere conversation we might otherwise have avoided.<\/p><p>I have already scheduled my next short retreat\u2014and I can\u2019t wait.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5cfbbdf elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"5cfbbdf\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Checklist: Things to Consider for Short Retreats\n<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7684d28 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7684d28\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Short retreats are not a replacement for longer retreats, but they are precious.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ideally, commit to at least three nights.\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Try not to do retreat at home.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Set your intention clearly.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Prepare ahead of time.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Allow for a slow transition into retreat.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Make a schedule and stick to it.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Don\u2019t forget the lineage and blessings.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Use the time well.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Come out of retreat slowly.<\/span><\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section data-particle_enable=\"false\" data-particle-mobile-disabled=\"false\" class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-e4138b7 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"e4138b7\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-row\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-e8b9339\" data-id=\"e8b9339\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-43875b2 elementor-author-box--image-valign-top elementor-author-box--layout-image-left elementor-widget elementor-widget-global elementor-global-76701 elementor-widget-author-box\" data-id=\"43875b2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"author-box.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-author-box\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div  class=\"elementor-author-box__avatar\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/nalandabodhi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/Brigitte-Lause-300x267.jpg\" alt=\"Brigitte Lause\" loading=\"lazy\">\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-author-box__text\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div >\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-author-box__name\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tBrigitte Lause\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-author-box__bio\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Brigitte Lause has been practicing Buddhism for more than twenty-five years and became a student of Ponlop Rinpoche in 2002. 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